Selasa, 24 Mei 2011

Marriage: A bed of roses or a bed of thorns?

By definition, marriage is a formal and legal way to bind two people, a man and a woman, who want to spend the rest of their lives together. There are many reasons why people get married, and is one of love. Usually when a person of someone loves and they want to with each other's company forever then that his has if they decide to marry. In the past no married couple which means they have their marriage work to separate. But today things are very different in many countries, divorce is now allowed. Received when a few files for a divorce, it means that she stop or end what it is that which keeps along them, when she married.

It is already known that marriage provides not only happiness and joy, in other words, it is not always a bed of roses. Usually, there are several problems that come with it, which sometimes makes it a bed of thorns. For a few things really work will, will not easily give up thorns make. Because problems are already a part of the marriage, a couple should as deal know for which their children and their marriage with them.

There are times when a couple has some hard times and during this time their marriage faced, can a little shaky. There are a couple who think that they are better off alone and separated, but there are also those who can go through hardships without thinking of signing up for a divorce. These are the couple who really have a strong commitment to each other. Despite all the problems, is so that the marriage last not only beneficial for the couple themselves. In particular, it is their children enjoy the benefits of being in a company and happy family. When children grow up with this type of environment, they are to things simply, bypass just like their parents with them. Although marriage a bed of thorns can be sometimes, this should not affect a couple relationship.

Make long a marriage of also last means that does not have a person, a life to spend alone. He or she is already insured with someone who will be by his or her side, even if they are very old. So should a few think the application for a divorce, not when they encounter some problems, because easy problems, in particular, if both want the same thing. There are so many ways to make a marriage last for a long time, and these options are very simple, but effective. Constant communication, respect, so that time for each other and small surprises are only some of the things that can do a few for each other, the fire burn to keep. As long as still pair with each other's company would like to be, nothing would be very difficult for them. You can easy their marriage last.