Weddings are one of the most significant life events, we can take. Whether for someone you love, or if it is your own, these events Mark a very touching moments that live in the memory for decades. The ceremony, guests, location, clothing and gifts often takes a little more attention. If you are planning for your future bride ceremony, sometimes there are issues that you believe in yourself and the most appropriate way to handle them. From our experience and Research Ethics "do's and don'ts" we have a few suggestions for you to keep in mind if you find yourself wondering.
Invitation questions
What if you don't want to have children at your wedding? How to tactfully say this in your invitations?
-On your invitation, leave the names of children and does not mention them in the invitation
-To have friends and family to pass the word around that the ceremony is expected to be only for adults
-Or, in some cases, you will need to be clear and honest. Your invitation card, write "Adult Entertainment" or "We hope that the two of you will be able to join us," or "2 seats reserved in your name"
-If confirmation is important, and you haven't heard from someone after 1 WEK your "reply to" date, call them or email them to renew.
-Send your parents and wedding invitations, even if they are likely already expects may be meaningful to them. They do not need to answer, obviously.
Is the return postage mannerly to put on your RSVP's, especially if you really want answers.
Wedding gifts
-This is considered rude to put "cash only" for your invitations, gifts, or that. He is also considered rude to put registry information on your wedding invitation. Wedding invitation is intended to recognize your care for face, wedding ceremonies, a significant event in your life. If you want to share registry, with friends and family to do so. Or you can include this information for the bridal shower invitation.
-Don't feel like you need to open your gifts at a reception in front of everyone. You can take them home and go through them later when you are more focused.
Cancellation or postponement
-Technically you should return a wedding ring. (DO what feels appropriate ... It is more difficult because of the emotions you both pass through).
-If the person sent you gifts ahead of time, you must send them back. You don't need to offer a longer explanation, but a quick note that the plans have changed, you must accompany them.
As tempting as it may be, do not speak ill of your ex in the city and friends. At this point, you're probably a very emotional. Everything is changing all the time-and humiliation, you may encounter when you get back together will be worse. Be sure to respect your ex as the same in return. You only look worse if you enjoy bashing and gossip. Say something like "We realized we wanted different things, after all" or something vague to people enough.
-Keep your out-of-town guests first so that they can lift their travel and accommodation.
-True etiquette recommends sending another invitation to the new date, if you delay. If not, you need to somehow be in contact with each guest.
Second marriage
-As a bride you may wear white or not. This is for you.
-If you're married to, or technically you don't have to wear a veil or have a long train of "purity" and "virginity" characters they represent.
-Your parents and family don't have to pay for anything.
-If your ex and his family, friends, you can invite them if he feels appropriate to both you and your fiance. Not sure why you'd like, but each relationship is different.
Seating issues
-Try to arrange your seating so that people ages sitting around each other: children with children, adolescents, teenagers, aunts and uncles. Place them in groups, categorized by their relationship to you (i.e. work cousins poems poems high school friends of friends) or their ages.
-If you know relatives and struggling, don't put them side by side. This is not the time to bridge the gap.
-For head table seat as you like. You can select the table for you and your partner and then the tables on the sides for a wedding banquet. You can organize a long table with men on one side and women on the other. Parents and grandparents can be included or not. It's more relaxed, celebrating after ... to do this, what is convenient for both of you.
-The number of tables instead of the names or places or seating. It's much easier for people to find out, and quickly find its place.
-Pool table, instead of places ... more comfortable for everyone (i.e. "the bride's parents and grandparents, etc.)
Gloves
-Gloves is a lovely touch! Appropriate to remove them and to convey Lady-in-waiting when you put on your ring ceremony. Put them on and leave them on the line and then, if you can, first dance. Remove them for eating and partying.
Payment questions
Who pays for what? This can be tricky.
Cost: admission-the bride, the groom's ring, Offertory, invitations, decorations, Floral, bridesmaids gifts, musicians gift groom bridal ceremony of transport, accommodation for your bridesmaids, if necessary
Bride Bridegroom: Ring-, brides bouquet and corsage, rehearsal dinner, gifts for groomsmen, transport for groomsmen, groom in ceremonies, housing the groomsmen gift if necessary
-Bridesmaids: your dress and clothing, shower gift for the couple and wedding transportation in city
-Groomsmen: your costume and clothing, a deer, a gift for the couple and wedding transportation in city
If you are a guest
-Please do not think a couple of know you are coming at their wedding. Planning and budgeting are important to them. Send a card "reply to" back to them.
-No need to send a gift, if you decline an invitation. This is for you.
-If you're late to the ceremony, wait until the bride walked down the aisle before finding a place. Make sure not to peek through the door in the Church, because you'll be in her photos. Walk down the aisle does not mean the outside.
-If you do not have faith in the Church, you don't have to participate. Do this if you want.
If you mail a gift, you don't have to lead another ceremony.
-Cash is the best for couples, out-of-town, because it costs a lot to navigation.
-If a couple has lived together and not register for gifts, perhaps they are all they need. Sending money is often relevant.
-Guests are expected to pay for transport and housing.
